Christmas is hard.
My son has a problem with being given gifts as it makes him feel very uncomfortable but as a parent you can't not give gifts! The way I've got round that is rather than giving them to him I leave them outside his room and tell him they're there so he can take them in when he feels comfortable.
I did that yesterday, and a few minutes later sent him a text saying that if he was peckish it might be an idea to have a look. I also said that I knew how hard it was for him and that he didn't have to acknowledge the presents or anything.
A little later I got a text back. It said "I do know it's hard for you as well. Thank you."
I can imagine how difficult even sending me that text was for him and, frankly, I had a lump in my throat when I read it. For me that was the best present ever.
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Heart warming.
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texting is wonderful. I am closer with my son now than ever. We text all the time. I am so glad for you. I hope you have a wonderful new year.
ReplyDeleteand we bashed the chavs 3-1!!!
ReplyDeletewhat did you get him that was edible?
Happy Christmas JAC
Hi Mongo.
ReplyDeleteNice to hear from you, and a very happy Christmas and new year to you and yours.
I just got him a bag of chocolates and sweets. Kind of like a selection box but in bigger packets and without the ludo game on the back!
As for the footie - oh yes! An extremely enjoyable evening.
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Hi Karen.
ReplyDeleteYes texting is very handy. although my son is in the same house he does find talking difficult sometimes so I often text him if it's something he might have problems with to let him reply in his own time. Doesn't always work but it's just one of the many 'tools'.
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